Looks aren't everything

What attracts somebody to you?  Is it the way you look?  The way you dress?  Or is it simply the way you carry yourself?  Most men tend to be attracted to the beauty of a woman before he gets to know the woman behind the beauty.  Men we need to take time to know that woman before we lay down with her.  This applies to both men and women.  Take time to understand what goes along with that pretty face before you make a long term decision on being with that person.  A lot of the time we get caught up in worrying about how beautiful the person is and we forget to learn who this person is mentally.  I've known people to fall in love with the other person just because how beautiful they were, but turn around and say I can't stand the way their attitude is months later.  The most beautiful people are the ones that have so much beauty in their hearts that you can't stand to be without.  The type of people that make everything look so much more clearer because of the way they see things.  We stereotype people all the time because of the way they look without never giving them a chance.  We don't want our children deciding who they should become or hang out with just because of what the person looks like or what they can do for them.  This leads to children to grow into something that they are not.  Let's make sure that while they grow up we help them understand that it's someones inner beauty that makes the person.  It's so important that we take the time to show our kids what they could miss if they only base something off of it's looks.