“The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be”
-Marcel Pagnol
Sometimes life can't get so difficult that you feel as if it's going to destroy you. For some of us it's hard for us to keep pushing and smiling through adversity all the time. It's important that we always remember that things come and go and bad times will do the same, it's up to you to fight your way through it. We've all been through hard times that we just didn't know if we could make it, but those times passed and you have become a stronger person because of that. We would all like everyday to go perfectly, but that's not how life goes. When going through bad times I try to keep a positive mindset, although it may be hard there are a few things that I think about when trying to keep positive and push through my hard times. First I understand that life happens and bad times will come, I'm not the only person who has been down on their luck and I won't be the last. I also feel as if I have a lot of time on this earth to go, and this will not be the only time that life gets me down. We have to understand as people that life isn't made to be easy, if it was everyone would always be happy. Forest Gump quoted "Life was like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get" although it was only a movie this statement makes sense. We never know as people what life will serve us on a day to day basis the only thing we can do is learn from our mistakes, apply it to the next day, and try to maintain happiness. There are always things we could do better and ways we can improve on our everyday lives, it's up to you to figure out what those are. Take time to realize what you are working toward in life so that you know what path you are walking. So many people feel as if the path will be shown to you, but I feel as if you will never see that path unless you clear out all of the weeds of negativity that blocks that path. As people we need to remember that life will never be easy, only managable that's why you have to work at it to get the most out of it as you can. It's important that we let our children know that they should expect life to be hard sometimes, but it's how they go about living it that will define who they are.
Let's stay motivated to better ourselves and keep life as simple as it could be, because we know that it will never get easier.
